SOPA and PIPA were going to pass, but the Internet made it known that it would cost a lot of people their political careers. The danger’s not gone yet, but the Internet’s not gone either.

Now Susan G. Koman for the Cure has changed its mind about pulling funding for Planned Parenthood. They will undoubtedly issue some press release about having reviewed their policies and found it possible to continue. What they will likely not say is that the Internet made it known that SGK would cease to exist as a charitable organization if they continued to cave to the anti-abortion bunch.

While I am very happy with both outcomes, I can’t help but sit here in awe at the efficiency with which our protests can self-organize. Iran in 2009, Egypt last year. Even minor things like Ocean Marketing’s interesting attempt at public relations. No issue is small when it catches the attention of millions of tweeters, bloggers, YouTube commenters, and Anonymous.

Unbelievably, this man was outed as a fuckstick

I found a pissy, get-off-my-lawn blog post from Andy Ostroy at HuffPo. I don’t think he gets it. Yes, the French Revolution came before Twitter. But the French Revolution also took more than four days to resolve and ended with like 12,000 dead people. Hosni Mubarack left 2.5 weeks after the Egyptian revolution started with the body count less than 900. (It may have climbed since — they are still protesting there over the military junta that filled the Hosni Gap.)

It’s not that the Internet invented protests. It’s that the Internet allowed more people to get involved immediately, which helps resolve things quickly. SGK not giving money to Planned Parenthood isn’t the same kind of event as attempting to overthrow Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, but it took virtually no time. Now the Net Denizens can move on to the next thing while SGK tries to rebuild a positive image.

I hope everyone is learning a lesson about the high cost of being an asshole. Your assholishness won’t be kept quiet from your friends, family, employers, and clients current and potential.

It is scary, though. Leon Trotsky and Maximilien Robespierre were both big players in kicking off the Russian and French revolutions, respectively. And those revolutions they set in motion were big players in their ultimate exile and guillotining without trial, respectively. (Robespierre must have felt quite the idiot, having allowed a law to be passed that let executions happen under simple public suspicion.) When you get something that big rolling, be sure you’re not ironically run over by it later.

But SGK’s reversal is a good thing. Planned Parenthood had received enough donations in the last few days to make up what they had lost, and I hope those donations continue even with the Komen money coming in. PPH isn’t out of the woods yet, since we insist on election these single-platform anti-abortion people to Congress.

I’m eager to see what’s next.

I’m always amazed when someone confesses to having chronic depression online. On your popular blogs, the comments threads fill up with people sharing their own stories and struggles with depressive or bipolar disorders. I’m sure it’s a confirmation bias — those who don’t suffer with depression tend to keep quiet because this is a world with which they have no insight.

That’s certainly true in my case. I read those comments because I want to understand what they’re going through. Often the depth of their struggles is only matched by the breadth of their strength. Not often enough, though. If you ever need a reason to go hug your throw pillows and rock quietly back and forth, read some stories of the people who couldn’t find what they needed.

If only breast cancer had a good marketing hook...

Recently, one of my favorite bloggers compared our treatment of cancer sufferers to depression sufferers. I’d never thought about it before, but I think Jenny has a point. I’ve been on bike tours and walks for cancer. There’s an underwear run in Canada to raise money for “below the waist” cancers — colorectal, testicular, ovarian, prostate and cervical. Testicular cancer even has its own champion bicyclist who might have been juicing. There’s bound to be a memorial pancreatic cancer iPhone app soon.

Cancer also has favored nation status on House. That’s more than we can say for lupus.

But looking for the equivalent support and fundraising systems for mood disorders is a study in frustration. I can find Mental Health America and some suicide hotlines, but I don’t see any fun runs where everyone’s in thongs or something. It’s surprising, because the list of current celebrities who’ve had to cope with depression includes some pretty big names:

• Angelina Jolie
• Catherine Zeta-Jones
• John Hamm
• Anne Hathaway
• Hugh Laurie (he doesn’t have lupus either)
• J. K. Rowling
• Buzz Aldrin

Pretty A-listy. But with the except of Catherine Zeta-Jones, they all talk about depression in the past tense. Buzz Aldrin, for example, struggled with his new fame after the Apollo 11 mission and pretty much crawled into a bottle for the first half of the 70s. While I am glad one of my heroes fought off his demons, that doesn’t sound like what Jenny Lawson or Allie Brosch or many of the commenters on their blogs are describing.

Why is that? Why does cancer, or Parkinson’s, or multiple sclerosis get the celebrity PSAs and the charities and events and Melissa Etheridge songs?

The answer is obvious, I think. Cancer can strike anyone of any age or social class with no warning. The treatment for it can be long and harrowing. Even if you pull through an occurrence, you are more likely than others to have it again. Every time you wake up with something different about you, you are panicked that your reprieve is done and the ride is starting over. It’s not a disease you really get cured of — you just learn to ignore the fear and hope each change isn’t lighting the fuse on another internal bomb.

But depression is different. Depression is… ummm… well… see… shit.

Glibness aside, the difference is one shows up on an MRI and the other hides in your brain. Someone with a tumor is sick and needs our help; someone with a mental disorder is crazy and needs to be in a funny jacket with the sleeves tied around back. If you see someone with a weird lump, you get them to the hospital (usually). If you see someone sitting in the dark and staring into space, you try to cheer them up or tell them to snap out of it. Would you tell a cancer victim to quit behaving like a baby and stop having a malignant growth on their colon?

(If Lorraine Day is reading this blog, I withdraw the question. Sorry Lorraine, I’m just not convinced your “eating beets and oppressing Jews” plan is the cure for anything. Also, get away from my blog you delusional butt-nugget.)

I don’t know what it’s going to take to start viewing depression as a serious disease, and people with depression as victims. I don’t think it helps when our glitterati doesn’t bring it up until they can talk about it as being “long ago.” We’re too afraid of people with some funky wiring in their heads because we think they’ll do something like drown their children or dress as Howdy Doody and drive the wrong way on the interstate or buy Snooki’s book.

I think there’s a branding problem, too. The word “depression” can be applied to severe disorder that you wrestle with every day, or it might be feeling temporarily a little glum all afternoon because it’s the last season for Chuck.

Maria has summed up the posts I’ve referenced here and several more. She’s set up a place where people can at least share their experiences and their pain, and they can do it anonymously so they can step back out into the world with their masks on. Reading the posts on there is wrenching if you have even a shred of empathy in you. If you can make it through those, you won’t be thinking about Chuck for awhile.

Or maybe I’m just a little extra sensitive today. My ultrasound last week found an anomaly, and I’m worried I might get to go through this cancer shit again.

At least an ultrasound can give me proof there’s something unusual going on. Even in the worst case, we’ll see exactly what’s happening and I’ll have people running and walking and biking for me too. At least until the American Cancer Society discovers I’m an atheist.

In the meantime, people just as sick as any cancer patient sit alone running razor blades along their arms to stave off the numbness for a few minutes. Maybe someone you know. It might be worth finding out. It might be worth finding help.

OMG this is Chuck's final season!